11.14.2011

In your heart...



It's a hard thing to do, isn't it?  Having someone that you truly have loved to have as a friend, but they have changed and are no longer a true friend or even really someone that you may feel like you know at all.  

I feel like we've all been there.  A great friend, even someone you may consider a best friend or sister, has changed and strayed completely from who you used to know.  There's nothing wrong with changing and growing, but sometimes that means you've grown and changed in a way which means you are no longer in each others lives.  

Even when you think of that person now, there are times you want to reach out, but is it something you should do?  Or just remember the times you shared, the laughter at all hours of the night, the fun you had?  It's hard to let go of some friends, but keeping the memories and hoping they're well is all there is to do now...

6 comments:

Michelle (michabella) said...

This year I had to let go of many friends, even my 'best friend'. It's hard but those memories will always be cherished. Love this post. I struggle with being okay that people change.

Mrs. Monologues said...

This is a great posts. Letting go of people is hard, but usually is done for the right reasons. Maybe your paths meet again later in life, but for now it is the best to say goodbye.

Jamie said...

I had to do this recently too. Its hard.

Mommyblogger said...

This happened to me last year. It still hurts to think about it but I know it was for the best.

Miss Chelsea said...

Good post. I'm going through it right now with some friends whom I've known since middle school, well I guess I use the term 'friend' loosely nowadays as not much effort is exerted on their end

Angie said...

I agree, it is hard to let go of friends when you've changed or they've changed. I've had to do that this year. One I see quite a bit, but we don't talk. It's hard.

 
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